i think there is an anal side of me that gets annoyed when i experience unoptimized crap. but at the same time, i think tools like electron give me relief knowing that human energy wasn't wasted optimizing or porting a billion apps. i deal with choppy performance of unity games on nindendo switch because i know that unity feels terrible to work with and i pity the developers, and i know that unreal engine is not something i want to work with either (my impression is that it's more performant, but it's fucking c++ or spaghetti blueprints?!?!). of course even our operating systems are unoptimized crap that degrade with each update too (this i find less excusable, but there are hidden escape hatches for it too).
to me, it's a little unfortunate that my silly iguana game won't be able to run on super old computers. but then i think about the pain of working with a more performant programming language and i'm fine with it.
i think we should all consider the human cost of writing software